Why are relationship so fragile? Haiz.
Rec'd another phone call from a dear friend of mine. She told me that she's decided to file for a divorce with her hubby. She can't take this kind of relationship anymore. She said that her husband no longer love her.
She said...
Actually she mentioned divorcing to her hubby quite a couple of times liao, but her hubby dowan. He promised her that he will change and bla bla bla. But in the end, none of his promise was fulfilled. The reason why her hubby is hanging on to this marriage is just because of his son. He love his son and he knew that my friend will definately fight for his custody. He can't bear to lose him so he objected to the divorce.
Seriously when she asked for my opinion, i'm lost of words. Too many bad experiences till I do not dare to give any advices on that kind of problem anymore. I can lend my ears, but I can't comment anything. I can only ask her not to think too much, not to be too upset etc but I can't tell her whether to divorce or not. I do not want to be or to be called the "accomplice" when things turn ugly at the end.
She told me, she just want to put all her concentration on her son now, she love her son. And she will be happy even she lead a simple life just with her son. She's indeed changed alot, she used to cut herself when she broke down due to marriage problem. But now... she's a noble mummy who only think about her son's future and happiness. *Claps*
"在这个世界上,最伟大的是母爱"
Hope that she will be happy, always.
Went down to Subaru Cartimes to look for Weijie. His uniform... lols abit weird weird de. Should say he look weird wearing that uniform. Casual talks, jokes and laugh. It's been long since we last gathered. I assume next one will be on his birthday ba.
Well, dono wad's their planning yet. But what I know is that I'm gonna be busy for the coming weekends. House viewings for my parents unit will be arranged, prolly on every weekend till the unit is sold. And our first appointment with HDB will be on 30th Oct, for the unit we bought. And after that.. will be meetings with our renovation contractor. God, think will gonna be busy till January liao. Sigh.
Am dam tired liao. Slpt for a few hours only. And I am feeling fking high today. Even when driving, i can feel like I'm floating on air. lols. I need a rest.
Off to rest. Bye.
Friday, September 12, 2008
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