Thursday, September 11, 2008

If you fall under the below...

THEN FUCK OFF FROM ME!!

1) Hypocrite ; Fake people

I'm not referring to those who having fake nose, fake chins, fake breast, etc. Those will only freak you out in appearance when they have their plastic surgery operation failed. Lols.
I'm referring to those who act kind and nice to you but behind your back, stab you with all kinds of nasty things.

2) Take advantage of ppl - Type 1

Will only call when they need help financially or ask you out when they have no money and expect you to pay for their everything. Frankly speaking, I hate this kind of ppl the most! These ppl are more scary than the 1st type.

If you have no money, just dun go out la. Just stay at home la. No money still keep thinking of fun, play, shop.

I will help abit if you just tell me you have no money. Maybe I can still pay for your meals or buy you drinks (just normal 1 or 2 dollars drink la). But not helping you pay for your entrance to clubbing or ktv or even pay for your dress you like. NO WAY! I am not "carrot" ok, and i hate to be treated like a "carrot".

3) Take advantage of ppl - Type 2

Not financially this time.

Making use of your name as a protection shield.

I have girlfriend which was very close to me. She lied to me and she made use of my name as a shield to her husband just to go out with other guys. I was such a dumbass for trusting her once again and again when she told her she's sorry for everything. And the worst thing she done to me was she pushed me to her husband when her husband told her he had feelings for me. She's not just an irresponsible mother to her daughter and a horrible friend.

4) Irresponsible towards parents, children and family.

I know this is very personal. I shouldn't be interferring in such family matters. But I just can't stand those who doesn't respect their family. Respect your parents as they suffer alot of hardships, spend alot of efforts in bringing you up.

I did yelled at my mum during my teenage years. I did not listen to her and shouted back at her for being naggy. Thinking back those times, I felt so guilty for treating her like this. Now, I will try to give her the best I could. Treat her with respect and love. She's not only my mother, she's my best friend too. She listen to my problems, give me advices and help me to overcome alot of problems. I felt so great for having such a wonderful mum.

Responsible to your children, you gave birth to them, you brought them to this world and it is your job / duty to raise them up. Not to push blame on them, or abandon them cos you feel that they are irritating, they are such a nuisance. I really can't understand, children are the cutest you can find on earth, how can you bear to treat them like this? How can you bear to throw them away or even abandon them? Abusing children are the most inhuman thing one can do. If you did those to your children, you aren't a human at all. And i would never want such a person to be my friend, not even those "hi" and "bye" kinds.

At times, when i dislike someone, i won't go straight to her and tell her "I dislike you, don't come and disturb me again". Cos i won't feel like talking to her anymore. But if she call me up, I will pick up and reply to wadever thing she ask, if she sms me, i will reply, if she msn me, i will reply but sometimes i will act afk. I will only talk or reply things when she ask, sort of entertaining her ba but i won't be asking her to go out again or joining her for her outings. The feelings sucks if I go out with someone whom I dislike.

I heard ppl complained about their friends making use of them. For eg, will only call you when they are bored or need someone to accompany them to go out or need someone to talk to when they are feeling down.

Frankly speaking, i feel that there's nothing wrong with it. I make use of my friends too. When I'm feeling down, i make use of their ears for me to nag all my unhappiness into it. I need their accompany when I am feeling bored. I make use of them for ktvs, mahjong sessions, clubbings..etc.. My friends make use of me too and i feel normal with it. I used to be very sensitive with this making use thing but now i'm perfectly ok with it.

When friends need your ears, mean they trust you. When your friends need you for accompanies means they enjoy being with you. Your friends love you that why they are making use of you. If you do not like you, you think they will bother to call you up and ask you out meh? They will just fuck care you lor.

So dont come and nag to me that you feel that I'm just making use of you. I make use of you cos I trust you, i enjoy being with you and I love you. =)

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