Too tired to think of any title.

Just reached home.

Accompanied my mum down to Taka to get her birthday present and then off to settle some stuffs.

I'm so upset... cos I couldn't join them for KTV! After everything, I was tired. Been driving almost for the whole day. XP's tired too. So we headed straight back home. Sigh.

I miss KTV! =( and I miss them. Sigh again.

Yesterday was with Fuzi, celebrating her belated birthday. Initial plan was to have dinner at Changing Appetite at Marine Sq. but the carpark there was full. Wanted to find park nearby, most carparks were full for the nearby shopping centres. Dam suay.

So changed plan, headed down to Vivo City and we had Sushi Tei for dinner. After dinner, we watched "Death Race". It was a very very nice show. Omg, abit of goreness plus "many bits" of gan chiong-ness and most importantly, the actors and actresses inside are so handsome and chio. My heart was beating quite fast, when they were racing. 4 1/2 popcorns out of 5, i will give.

And thanks to my dearie Fuzi for watching "Death Race" together with us even though she already watched it before. But this show definately worth it.

Tmr's family day! Sunday's always a family day for me. Only chance for me to go home, when both my parents and sister are all at home. Usually they are working on weekdays and for saturdays my sister is always out with friends. So i guess Sunday's only chance for us to gather. Tmr will be bringing my doggies along too, its been quite some times since they went for "gai gai" liao.

But after Jan, everyday will be family day liao. Cos my parents and sister shifting in with us also. Whee!

Ok. I'm tired. Going bed soon.

Still feeling upset, guess they must be enjoying at ktv now, singing happily all the way. Sobs.

Whee!

Passed my TP ! Got license liao. Heehee!

What is love?

Why is love such a fragile thing?

Are vows meant to be broken?

What should be there be in a marriage? Just responsibility? No love?

Is there really ever-lasting love?

A guy told a girl that he loves her and ask her to marry her. During the ceremony, he vowed that he will love her forever no matter what happens and promise to take care of her for the rest of her life. But years after the marriage, the guy do not love the girl as much as before but still hold on to the relationship cos of responsibilty. As times go on, the guy don't love the girl anymore, did alot of things to hurt her and made her upset. The girl swallowed all her tears and pains and continue with the relationship cos she love him.

I heard alot of similar cases from my friends. I felt so much for them. I've been through similar relationship before. I understand the pains.

And because of that, now...

I'm at lost.

I felt so guilty.

I do not know if I'm doing the correct way.

At times I feel that I should not have interfere too much into other ppl matters. But I felt so much for her.

Perhaps I should not have know so much...

I'm feeling very emo now... Haiz...

Can someone tell me how to do??

You will definately love this =)

You better dun screammm!

Presently my cutest Pikachu darling.....

Pika...

Pika...

Pika ChUUUUUUUUUUUUUU...

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Da-tah! Lols

Can you spot the little tail at the back?


The honey bee suits! Cute lil Kayden in this cute suit with his cute expression...

The bee flyyyyyysssss....
Up into the sky.......
Lols.

The pics cute anot? My sis bought them from Taiwan and its fits just nice. Xiao En also got buy one tiiger suit for him but it's abit huge, can let him wear when he start to walk. Can you imagine, lil Kayden walking with that suit and a tiger tail wiggling at the back? O-gOsh!

FINALLY....

Just sign the option purchase form just now. Yea! Finally we found a unit and the owner accepted our offer. It wil be located at Jurong West Blk 556. Estimated date we can move in, mid dec - mid jan.

Yesterday steamboat was nice and enjoying. Had a great time, eating those food and chatting with them. I am hoping for another gathering soon. Ktv this sat pls!

Time for bath and sleep.

Sweet dreams all! =)

(To someone. I have not forgotten your coming birthday. Since your exact day is occupied. I think I might plan smth on the day before. Wait for my call! )

LifeLESS

Recently I'm hooked onto a game in facebook, called the "Mobs Wars". If not for Hubbie, i dun think I will ever be interested in such a game.

When he just started playing, I didn't even bother to take a look at it. But when more and more of his friends were talking about it, and out of curiousity I joined the application and now I'm hooked!

Well, its kinda of boring at the first, but when u gained higher lvl, its more fun than I expected.

And Hubbie is now beside scolding me for being hooked onto the game as he saw me typing, and he kept denied that he was "hooked" to the game also. Well, nevermind.

And recently I was into horror movies too. There is this website which you can watch the past movies free of charges and I watch it everyday. I'm back to "lifeless" again. Everyday computer computer computer only. Erm, not totally lifeless I think, at least I still have kayden and my driving lesson. I do walk out of my house. I do go back to my mum and mother in law house. I do go for movie once in awhile. I do go out for house viewing. So hmm, I'm normal i think.

Tonight meeting with the pubors for steamboat! Can't wait! Cannot call them "Pubors" liao though they are still as pubors as before. Call them the "steamboat" gang. Lols.

I love steamboat, I love Mahjong and I love the steamboat gang!

And bub, I'm too lazy to do that tagged quiz. Next entry ba. =)

Help!

Help!! I'm dropping dead soon!

Every morning driving lesson. Woke up this morning 6am for my 7am driving lesson and at night still went for another 2 hrs lesson. Roar! Fking tired. =(

I need STEAMBOAT! I need MAHJONG to refresh myself!!

HELP ME.........!!

=)

Pissed Off

Am so pissed off with those idiotic greedy property agents!

Remember i mentioned about a unit in Jurong West that all of us like? We were all hoping to get that unit but cos of that idiotic greedy agent, we couldn't get the deal. He used our offer as a stepping stone to push his direct buyer. So no matter how high we gonna offer, we won't be able to get that unit. Damn him!

Mummy very disappointed. Sigh. Have to look for another unit again.

Hubbie still in camp, not sure whether his defer will be successful anot. Still waiting for answers from them. Its only half a day and I'm missing him. What if his deferment fail? He will be away for 2 long weeks. How am i going to survive for these 2 weeks without him.

So guys, friday steamboat and mahjong?????

Loves loves and miss miss =)

My Precious

Kayden getting very playful and talkative these few days.

Talked so much! Talked to me, talked to his daddy, talked to his grandma, talked to my maid, talked to the ceiling light, talked to the yellow curtains, talked to the jigsaw puzzle on the wall.

Lols. He really like to talk alot. =P

Went ard to view a few units at the West side for the past few days. Got our eyes on one of the unit at Jurong West. Though its already 20 plus yrs but its condition is excellent. The layouts, the location, the size everything is just perfect. We simply love that unit.

Now trying to close it, but owner still hesitating on the price we offered. They're greedy. Their initial selling price was valuation plus another 40k cash. Now they intending to raise it again. Fuck!

Not feeling good these few days. Had a bad gastric yesterday after my morning driving lesson. Then at night, still attended another two hrs of driving lesson till 11pm despite the gastric pain I'm still having. Poor me. Bo bian. My TP's on the 28th Aug. Less than 2 weeks from now, I hve to buck up. I can't fail this test.

And now.. slight gastric pain again. Sigh...

Bleahz

My boy is so mischievious with his expression.

Bleahz... (I bet he will be a great kisser in future since he like to play so much with his tongue, haha)
Another one...
Smiling happily...
His "O" look again. Haha!

Handsome boy!


Guess wad he is doing??

Got the answer??
Any answerss??
Gochaa! He's shitting. LMAO!

That all folks!!!

Medicine SUCKS

I'm sick and I have to take the medicine every night.

It makes me so drowsy... so sick. I hate it but I still have to continue with it.

Sigh...

My TP date had been changed to a much earlier date, 2 weeks from now. Omfg! I am so nervous. Gonna go for driving lesson everyday from today.

Sigh again...

4.5 out of 5 popcorns!

Money Not Enough 2 is hilarious! Nice show! I laughed till i cried but the ending part's quite sad, when their old mother sacrificed for her granddaughter. It reminds me of my grandmother. Nicest movie i watched recently.

I wana watch Journey to the Centre of the Earth too. Its seems to be a nice show. Anyone interested to watch that movie too? Jio me go!!

Anyway I'm shifting house real soon. Most probably by end of Jan. Went to view a few units just now. Hmm. still considerring.

So MJ kakiss, my place will be free to book till January. Anyway I welcome you guys to my new house in future too, but then the location.. hmm dam ulu, dont think you guys want to come lor.

I miss Mahjong.... *hint hint* hees

Techno and Retro fever!

Ytd night was simply crazy. 4 ppl finished two bottles of Martell.

Celebrated Cat's birthday at iRumours last night. Songs was nice, technos, retros. Omg reminds me of the olded days. Memories! Loves!

The live bands there not so bad either, got one from china the other one from Thailand.

Done alot of crazy stuffs ytd, helped my friend sianing a guy, teasing both of them. Its been long since I last felt so "young" liao.

Before boarding cab, Cat say tonight CHIONG again! Cos today is her actual birthday. Duh! I feel abit sick when I smell Martell liao. Must find excuse to siam =x

Anyway later going down to Cousin house for bbq. My mum asked me to go along, cos my aunts miss Kayden.

I suddenly miss Sparks and Canto so much!! Love Technos!!!

(P/s i'm not ah lian hor, dun assume those who like technos are lian k? I AM NOT!!)

The Giant

Went down to Downtown East Hub this afternoon together with hubbie and Weijie.

And we had our dinner at NYNY (New York, New York).

Hubbie "anti-social", ordered a fish and chip himself. And since Weijie wanted to try the Giant Yankee burger, i offered to share with him.

The giant burger...
It's really huge, the whole burger is about 8 inch big, and with alot alot alot of fries.

I only ate 1/4 of it and I'm already very full. Hubbie helped by eating another 1/4 and Weijie ate half of it.

I always wanted to visit Downtown east hub since it opened. But never had a chance cos its too far away.

But to my disappointment, the shopping centre issn't very big and not much retail shops in it. Only mostly restuarants, a bowling alley and cinema i think.

Meeting my sister-in-law's bf, Byran later at 8.30pm, to discuss about selling and buying house. Yes, we will be shifting soon. It will be sometimes in Jan next yr. My parents are going to sell away their current 4 room flat and moving in with us to the new flat. We gotta find something big with at least 4 bedrooms. Our choices will be Executive Apartment or Executive Masionette.

Later will be meeting my girls, going down Clark Quay to celebrate "Mao Mao" birthday. Actually dowan to go anywhere cos my mum's at my house staying over. But its cat's birthday so have to go down.

Ok, almost 8.30 liao. Meeting Byran ler. Will blog again soon.

Perfect Wife

Weeks ago, I texted him something about me promising to change my temper, no more emo-ness, no more frustration etc, and promise to be a perfect wife with no room for improvement.

He told me he's gonna keep that message and if next time I throw temper at him, he will flash this sms to me to remind me. But too bad... he accidentally deleted that sms away. Rofl.

So... no evidence showing my promise to change, no evidence about changing to a perfect wife.

Oh ya, u guys pls do not be mistaken by the word "Perfect"

Our defination for "Perfect" is not in terms of looks, figures etc, its about inner beauty, like behavior, characters...

If its about outlooks, then I will never be perfect. =/

If hubbie saw the above, i think he will be acting upset, acting emo, lols.

Okok, don't be upset, don't act emo, here's a present for you....

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I, Lim Xue Qi, NRIC S82xxxxxx, hereby promise to change the following for her husband, Mr Tan Xiao Ping.

- Will control my temper

- Will not throw temper at you over small minor things.
(very similar to above, just add in to make the list longer =x)

- Be understanding

- Be considerate

- Won't get easily emo over small minor things also

- to be Mr XP's perfect wife

But...


the above will only be effective if you promise me the followings... Wahaha.

1) Never pinch my nose or face or beat/pinch me (any part of my body)

2) Never tickle me

3) Never hide my little precious pillow up, be it inside Yuki's house, under the bed, on top of the bed frame. All cannot!!!

4) Never tease me or say me stupid

5) Must shower me with lots of love and care.

6) Never betray me!!! (Most impt one)

If you fail to do any of the above.. then I've to say bye bye to those promises I made to you too. Muahahaha.

You must be jumping ard after u see this post.

CONTROL!!! You must control! Cos you cannot pinch/beat me. You cannot bully me!!! Wahaha

Define Happiness

Happiness; the feeling of being happy

My happiness is :

When I see my love ones happy,

when I see my dogs playing around happily,

when I see my darling boy, Kayden,


Xp texted me this ytd.
"I want you to be happy, i will try my best to give u happiness"

Silly hubbie. I want you to be happy too. This is the only kind of happiness I want you to give me.

I felt so upset when I knew that I made you unhappy ytd.

Only yr smile will brighten up my days you silly.

So smile more =)

And never ever blame yrself and think that you haven't give me enough.

I got Kayden, the three dogs and YOU! That more than enough to me le.

Moodless

Did something which make hubbie unhappy.

I know he's unhappy but he dowan to let me know. I felt terribly upset and regretted.

But hais.. i can't do anything about it only apologise..

Sorry dear... =(

Carlsberg vs Tsing Dao

Opps forget something...

You guys know mah?

Carlsberg can cure flu and cough while Tsing Dao will only make ppl sick??

You know why? The Tsing Dao i drank in Shenzhen made me so sick with serious flu and cough. And after drinking carlsberg I'm actually feeling much better.

Love Carlsberg and hate Tsing Dao!!!

The Kpo Potato Salad

Did anyone of you tried the potato salad i made? I'm not praising myself but it's yummy lor. Hahas.

Potato salad always reminds me of granny...

When my granny still around, she love the potato salad i made. Everytime she would sure ask me to leave her a big tub for her to bring home and eat slowly. And she will always ask me "Qi ah~! You got wash your hands before doing the salad anot?!" Haha. My granny was cute.

Its been 2 yrs since she left us. And i miss her deeply. I will never forget how she "tortured" my dog, the way she laugh, the "abit of shocked, bits of angry, bits of surprise, bits of funny" expression on her face when she saw the Little Mermaid cake I bought for her... I will never forget those happy moments we spent, in Sentosa, at my house, at her house. I won't forget those painful moments in the hospital too. She will always be missed.

Hubbie told me this ytd, "Dear, if you make potato salad for me to eat, I will love you more." Duh! Becos of alittle more love from him, I have to make the potato salad for him tmr.

Its issn't easy work k? You will need to peel the potatoes, you will need to boil them till they are soft and cut them into cubes. Then you will need to cook the eggs and peel the shells. You will need to smash the eggs and bla bla bla! Lots of hard work ok??! And I always scald my hands while doing the potatoes. Sobs.

Anyway he won't get to eat the salad tmr, cos I cun find any bacon bits in the few supermarkets i went. So I have to make a trip down to the Shop N Save in West Mall or Bt Timah Cold Storage to find it.

Anyone who want to try the salad, pls drop by my house at Gombak on Wednesday. Hee.

Happened to saw something while i was browsing thru the blogs stored under my favourite tab. I saw something and i had been thinking about it since just now. And there is something which i really do not understand... If you do not want ppl to discuss about the things you wrote, in the first place why do you blog them? Then if you already blogged them, then why can't ppl read and discuss about it? It hard to know wad such kind of person is thinking.

Hm.. i feel its simply just another immature behaviour. Just like.. when I'm in gd terms with you... oh of cos you can read my blog, read the present, read the pasts, and all are free for you to read, discuss or gossipped about, but if I dislike you... nono! you can't read my blog, you can't talk about it and if you mentioned or discuss about it, i will call you bitch. Its childish right?

And ya, that person definately made the right choice, she stopped blogging. Perhaps he is going to write all her personal stuffs in his "My dear diary" book with a lock outside. And only she himself can read it. (Sorry about the he and she, lols i did it on purpose de =P)

Don't ever think or suspect that the person I'm writting is referring to you. Its definately not you! Cos I don't think any of my friends will ever do that. They are all grown up gentlemans and ladies and will never behave in such an immature way.

I love to go around reading other ppl blogs, even those I do not know. Bo bian. I have too much free time. Then whenever I find blogs which are interesting I will bookmark them so I can dig more out of them in future.

If you are those kind of people who don't like others to read your blog, simple... just lock it and limit it to your invitations only. Or you can like wad i mentioned above, write them all in your "my dear diary" book.

=)

And my potato salad definately not for those "kids"... Lols. (Just joking)

P/s : Why Kpo potato salad? Cos I'm kpo and the salad is made by me. Hees

Money or love? 面包或者爱情?

This post's to reply to the comment in my previous entry...

Anonymous asked " wad if ur partner can give you anythin you want like money, would you still stick to your 原则 (principle)?"

Of cos I love money.. Who else don't love money. Everyone love money.

I love to shop, I love branded, I love lotsa things which money can buy. But money can never be used to exchange or replace love or happiness.

Even with millions or billions of dollars to spend...

I will not be happy without being with the one I love.

I will not be happy if the one I love do not love me as much as I love him.

I will not be happy if the one I love is not faithful towards our relationship.

So if my partner betray the trust, betray our relationship, I will never forgive him even he give me millions to spend.

面包或者爱情?

我当然选择爱情！

I can't survive without love... Love from my family, my pets, my friends and of cos from my hubbie...

Can girls tolerate their boyfrends going to nightclubs?

Feeling surprised or shocked? For me to write post with such a topic?

Recent happenings to my friends made me think alot on this topic.

Back in Shenzhen, me and hubbie quarrelled over this issue also. Yes! When me and the other gals went shopping in 东门, hubbie and his friends went to nightclub. He told me he doesn't really want to go de, but have to entertain his friends, so he went. And he never inform me before going. He said that one of his friend already sms-ed his girlfrend so he tot that that girl will inform me. They went there for awhile. They drank, sang songs... There are other girls in the room too. You guys should know which kind of girls I'm referring to. Hubbie told me that initially one of the girls sat beside him but after awhile, he shifted to his friends side and the girl went to the other side accompanying his friend.

When he back to the hotel, we quarrelled non stop till next morning. He threw temper on me, raise his voice on me cos he was abit drank. I almost wanted to leave him cos he promised me before that he won't go such places. I never listen to his explanations. I can't calm myself down till the following morning. He made his promise to me again. I accepted it. He said he won't do things that make me unhappy anymore in future.

(Sorry hubbie, i promise you not to talk abt that incident anymore but i still wrote it out)

Back to the topic...

(Sincere apology if you feel offended after reading the below content. They are just my personal opinions. I'm not assuming that the things I wrote are true, all just written from my personal point of view.)

How many percentage of the girls in singapore can tolerate their boyfren or husband going to such places? Be it due to business or personal.

I personally can't accept it. I can't tolerate the one I love, holding other girls hand, or hugging other girls. No no no! I will never accept that. You can say I'm petty, selfish, inconsiderate or wadeva.

Whether its due to work or personal, i just can't accept it. Hubbie told me sometimes its hard to reject his friends or even bosses but I'm just the unreasonable type. Maybe I can accept once or twice, maybe only... but if its very frequent, then I'm sorry...

Got guys told me, "Come on la, nowadays its very normal for guys to visit those places. 缝场作戏 you know?" "We will never get serious with those type of girls one."

Ya ya, i know its very normal for guys to visit those places nowadays, and i know the 缝场作戏 thingy. But i have doubts in "we will never get serious with those type of girls one." I won't believe in this.

I have friends whose husbands left them for another girl. Another girl whom they knew from ktv. I also have guy friends whom fell in love with those girls and went down at least once every week just to see and hug them. I saw too many such cases, so I will never believe that you guys will never put in real feelings for them.

I think...

Some girls will even tell you their sad backgrounds which most of the stories are just bullshits. Maybe some of them are telling the truth, but most of them are just trying to make u pay more for their tips at the end of the day.Most of the girls working there are just working for the sake of money, fast money.

I have friends working in ktvs before too. They work there not becos they wana find boyfren there, they work there for the sake of money only. They need money.

Most of the girls working there are pretty with great figures, most of them are from China with beautiful fair skin. I will be surprise if you guys won't feel attracted. 我就不相信你们不会感觉到心痒痒。

We girls can be faithful to guys in everything, why can't they treat us back the same. I'm not just referring to relationship but to other things also. If my hubbie hold other girls hand or hug other girls, I will feel betrayed.

Guys ask yourself, if your wife did the same to you. Can you tolerate also? Before going to such place, before having such fun, pls spare a thought of your girlfren and wives. They can be 100% faithful to you, why can't you be the same to them.

Don't use friends, ego etc as an excuse. Even if its because of work, doesn't mean you have to ask for girls' accompany over at the nightclub. Friends won't use a knife to force you. Maybe they will say "buay steady la, everyone come out happy happy, you lidat.." or even laugh at you, "scared of wife" or wadeva, but this shouldn't become one of the reason to hurt the one that love you.

Some guys maybe lucky to have girlfren who can tolerate them going such places, but XP issn't that lucky to have such a wife.

But I'm lucky to have XP as my hubbie. Cos he's one of the few who doesn't like to go such places. He told me this and i trust him. So hubbie, pls do not betray the trust I have in you.

It's Sherilyn's birthday!!

Happy birthday to you...Happy birthday to you...Happy birthday to Sherilyn...Happy birthday to you!

Happy belated birthday to Dee also!
At mind cafe... celebrating Sher and dee birthday...

The shelf of board games xD

The boardgames we played...
The two pretty birthday girls and dee's monkey ? son/daughter ?
Blewing off the candles..
Gosh! Are they kissing? Lols
Mr and Mrs Monkey and their little monkey...

Pretty pretty...
Mr Bing cutting cake. He's pro in it. Lols
Lols. guess wad's Ting doing?
Went down to West Coast Dog run for awhile yesterday evening.

Surprising quite many ppl there...

The shy golden retriever, Silver... He's such a handsome babe.

They are having National Day Dog walk event today but I'm too lazy to go..

And I'm sick too =(