Can girls tolerate their boyfrends going to nightclubs?

Feeling surprised or shocked? For me to write post with such a topic?

Recent happenings to my friends made me think alot on this topic.

Back in Shenzhen, me and hubbie quarrelled over this issue also. Yes! When me and the other gals went shopping in 东门, hubbie and his friends went to nightclub. He told me he doesn't really want to go de, but have to entertain his friends, so he went. And he never inform me before going. He said that one of his friend already sms-ed his girlfrend so he tot that that girl will inform me. They went there for awhile. They drank, sang songs... There are other girls in the room too. You guys should know which kind of girls I'm referring to. Hubbie told me that initially one of the girls sat beside him but after awhile, he shifted to his friends side and the girl went to the other side accompanying his friend.

When he back to the hotel, we quarrelled non stop till next morning. He threw temper on me, raise his voice on me cos he was abit drank. I almost wanted to leave him cos he promised me before that he won't go such places. I never listen to his explanations. I can't calm myself down till the following morning. He made his promise to me again. I accepted it. He said he won't do things that make me unhappy anymore in future.

(Sorry hubbie, i promise you not to talk abt that incident anymore but i still wrote it out)

Back to the topic...

(Sincere apology if you feel offended after reading the below content. They are just my personal opinions. I'm not assuming that the things I wrote are true, all just written from my personal point of view.)

How many percentage of the girls in singapore can tolerate their boyfren or husband going to such places? Be it due to business or personal.

I personally can't accept it. I can't tolerate the one I love, holding other girls hand, or hugging other girls. No no no! I will never accept that. You can say I'm petty, selfish, inconsiderate or wadeva.

Whether its due to work or personal, i just can't accept it. Hubbie told me sometimes its hard to reject his friends or even bosses but I'm just the unreasonable type. Maybe I can accept once or twice, maybe only... but if its very frequent, then I'm sorry...

Got guys told me, "Come on la, nowadays its very normal for guys to visit those places. 缝场作戏 you know?" "We will never get serious with those type of girls one."

Ya ya, i know its very normal for guys to visit those places nowadays, and i know the 缝场作戏 thingy. But i have doubts in "we will never get serious with those type of girls one." I won't believe in this.

I have friends whose husbands left them for another girl. Another girl whom they knew from ktv. I also have guy friends whom fell in love with those girls and went down at least once every week just to see and hug them. I saw too many such cases, so I will never believe that you guys will never put in real feelings for them.

I think...

Some girls will even tell you their sad backgrounds which most of the stories are just bullshits. Maybe some of them are telling the truth, but most of them are just trying to make u pay more for their tips at the end of the day.Most of the girls working there are just working for the sake of money, fast money.

I have friends working in ktvs before too. They work there not becos they wana find boyfren there, they work there for the sake of money only. They need money.

Most of the girls working there are pretty with great figures, most of them are from China with beautiful fair skin. I will be surprise if you guys won't feel attracted. 我就不相信你们不会感觉到心痒痒。

We girls can be faithful to guys in everything, why can't they treat us back the same. I'm not just referring to relationship but to other things also. If my hubbie hold other girls hand or hug other girls, I will feel betrayed.

Guys ask yourself, if your wife did the same to you. Can you tolerate also? Before going to such place, before having such fun, pls spare a thought of your girlfren and wives. They can be 100% faithful to you, why can't you be the same to them.

Don't use friends, ego etc as an excuse. Even if its because of work, doesn't mean you have to ask for girls' accompany over at the nightclub. Friends won't use a knife to force you. Maybe they will say "buay steady la, everyone come out happy happy, you lidat.." or even laugh at you, "scared of wife" or wadeva, but this shouldn't become one of the reason to hurt the one that love you.

Some guys maybe lucky to have girlfren who can tolerate them going such places, but XP issn't that lucky to have such a wife.

But I'm lucky to have XP as my hubbie. Cos he's one of the few who doesn't like to go such places. He told me this and i trust him. So hubbie, pls do not betray the trust I have in you.