Sunday, September 28, 2008

A One Stop Service For DOGS

There's country club for human, did you ever heard that there is such club for dogs?

Don't be surprise cos there is one I found which is located near Yew Tee MRT. It is a place for doggie daycare and also a perfect playground for dogs.

Club4Paws is located at No. 5 Stagmont Ring Road.

They have daycare and grooming services for dogs. And also a shop where u can shop your doggie stuff, a cafe where you can hang around with friends and their dogs and what most attracted me was their doggie swimming pool.

I used to bring my dogs down to sentosa, palawan beach for them to swim. But usually had a hard time washing them after the swim. There's definately sand everywhere in my house on the next day. Thus, I would never want to bring them there for swim anymore.

I'm glad that they came out with this doggie swimming pool. They can swim and enjoy there without bringing those sand back to my house and the water there is definately much cleaner. There's even a place for you to bath your dogs after the swim.

You will need to be their member before you can use their facility. $30 annual membership fee for each dog. And for the swimming pool usage, will be $5 per dog entry on weekends and I think $3-4 on weekdays.

Before they accept your membership application, they will need to do a temperament test on your doggies. Make sure they are friendly with other dogs and ppl and most importantly they do not bite.

I might be bringing my dogs down once every 1 or 2 weeks. Call me if you wana join us.

Here are photos i took yesterday...










And yesterday night was fun too. Met up with the ex-empire gang for Dota. I'm lousy, always the last on the list.

And today morning, when I woke up, found that my right eye is swollen and pain. Perhaps I had been dota-ing too much.

Meeting bing and the others later, so excited and looking forward to see the Botak bing. Hahas.

Ok, I gotta rest my eye liao.

Saturday, September 27, 2008

Conscience

Life's definately unpredictable especially when you have friends who always cock things up, another word, Irresponsible.

Haha, i've been talking and talking about responsibilty in my recent entries. Sorry, but I just can't help it. Irresponsibility really does irritates people.

Fuck those who don't honor their words. Fuck those fucking b**tards who screwed up other ppl's lifes. Fuck those who caused quarrels between hubbie and me.

Thanks to them for the slpless night yesterday. Not all the credits go to them la, thanks my PSP too.

Psp-ed till ard 4 plus in the morning. Then hubbie woke up. And hurting things followed. We quarrelled. Actually its my fault la. Sigh. And i apologised. And hubbie texted me this "Let us learn from every quarrels, and be stronger towards our future." Thanks hubbie.

Went down to buy breakfast together. And I only get to slp ard 7 plus.

Then woke up at 11 plus, dam shag. Only slp for less than 4 hours. Fish!

Enough of these sickening shit people la. Make my blood boil when i think of it.

Tele-chatted with one of my friend last night. Have been feeling lost with something. Something had been bothering me for quite awhile. Talked with hubbie about it also, but hubbie don't know what I should do too. So i called him.

(I think this word "tele-chatted" does not exist. Lols. But i think tele-chatted is short and clear rather than I chatted with xxx over the phone. So fuck care if its proper english, or singlish or dono wad lish la)

Well i felt that some of his words were very true. And maybe his method works the best. I'm still deciding on what I should do. I dono if I can remain "act like dono anything" for how long. Doing things against own conscience, is not my style. I will feel bad about it. And it will bother me for quite awhile.

I think for now, I have to continue "acting" ba. At times, truth hurts and lie can ease pain. I think that person will live more happier in that pool of lies.

And sometime its hard for a 3rd party to interfere, a lesson learned on one's own is twice as strong as a lesson told. My friend is right. Let him fall and hurt himself, only from pain he will be able to learn from his mistake.

It would be better if he come to his own realization about it and does it on his own...

Hope he will learn to treasure the current things he have , not wait till he lost everything then it will be too late to regret.

Holy Sheet!

My supper for the night. Nissin Mini Cup Noodle (Chicken Flavor)




Saw this at the supermarket, dam cute lor. Lols.

Ya, i am very bored, so I keep logging in to post shits.

The previous post must be making you ROFL. Now the coming video will make you "roll eyes", horrified, shocked or your heart might even stop for a second. Maybe I'm just exaggerating. Lols

I think you might just shout "Oh god! Holy shit!"

I will never work as a window cleaner, even you give me 10 thousands per month, i won't. Perhaps if you give me, 10k per minute, i might considering risking my life for that. Lols.

I've heard workers falling from that machine, i've heard things falling off from it and hit one of those passer-by head and caused death.

Its really a dam dangerous job. But think of it, all jobs in Singapore have their own risks. Even drivers like me, have its danger too. F3.

My lovely weekend is waiting for me, cossss I will be meeting the ex-empire gangs for DOta-ing at maybe bt timah irc tonight and then, meeting the botak bing on sunday for dinner.

Talking abt lan, i feel young again. Lols. Miss those days. Overnight and weekend zak at irc... Those days were simply fun.

Bye for now. I don't think there will be any videos to share. Cos time for my PSP soon.

Totally in love with Harvest Moon.

Friday, September 26, 2008

Laugh and enjoy =)

XP show me this video.

Omg lor! Fucking 90s beng la! Haha. ROFL!

Enjoy!


I wish, I hope, I pray...

our nightmares would be over soon =)

F.U.C.K.A.R.D

Sigh. Why are there so many irresponsible ppl ard?

Why are people still using handphones when they don't pick up their calls, reply smses or even call back when they promised to?

Making ppl wait for their fucking call for the whole fucking day?! I know his fucking time is fucking precious, so is ours. He think that our time is fucking shit while his's fucking precious?

If he's having such mentality whereby he's the fucking boss around and everyone have to wait for him, he can jolly well go FUCK the wall la.

Really can't stand such fucking people. Fucking bustard, in short i call him fuck-ard!

Sorry for my this fucking post.

And I'm sad.. Cos...

i put this in my msn.

мιснєιιе says "FUCK THOSE IRRESPONSIBLE IDIOTS!"

Jiajun said to me,

[xCesc] says:
fierce leh!

then i changed my msn to this.

мιснєιιе says "I'm not fierce, actually I'm a nice lady that bites occassionally =x"

then he said,

[xCesc] says:
ouch!


[xCesc] says:
must be wary of you


мιснєιιе says "I'm not fierce, actually I'm a nice lady that bites occassionally =x" says:
T_T


[xCesc] says:
lol


мιснєιιе says "I'm not fierce, actually I'm a nice lady that bites occassionally =x" says:
u think i will bite u meh?

мιснєιιе says "I'm not fierce, actually I'm a nice lady that bites occassionally =x" says:
lol


[xCesc] says:
no arh

[xCesc] says:
just xiao xin


мιснєιιе says "I'm not fierce, actually I'm a nice lady that bites occassionally =x" says:
f3


[xCesc] says:
cause you say you nice lady!


мιснєιιе says "I'm not fierce, actually I'm a nice lady that bites occassionally =x" says:
yea. i'm indeed a nice lady. so theres nothing to be xiao xin of mah?


[xCesc] says:
"nan yi zhi xing!"


мιснєιιе says "I'm not fierce, actually I'm a nice lady that bites occassionally =x" says:
f3


[xCesc] says:
hahaha!

=(

I'm really a nice lady leh. Sobs

Btw, he's very pissed off with me for not calling him when I saw him at the airport two days ago. Cause I thought he is pak tor-ing. Paiseh to disturb mah. Hee.

As promised, we will meet up soon!

Something nice, sweet and cute to share.

Enjoy!



Cute Dog Snoozes @ Yahoo! Video

Thursday, September 25, 2008

What goes around, comes around

God is watching you and everything you did before.

You can lie to us, to everyone, even to yourself but not to God.

You can deny everything, hide things from everyone but not Him.

I won't ask or mention a single thing about that incident again, I will leave it to the God and see what He got for you.

Extracted from other webbie

"Karma is the law of moral causation. It is action and reaction in the ethical realm. It is natural law that every action produces a certain effect. So if one performs wholesome actions such as donating money to charitable organisations, one will experience happiness. On the other hand, if one perform unwholesome actions, such ass killing a living being, one will experience suffering. This is the law of cause and effect at work. In this way, the effect of one’s past karma determine the nature of one’s present situation in life. "

I think there's alot of "sufferings" waiting ahead for you. Good luck!

What goes around, comes around. =)

Monday, September 22, 2008

Counting down...

My school starting 10th nov... 1 month plus to go. Going back to those days again liao. Just pray that there isn't much homework to do, cos I hate them and I'm lazy.

Back to my psp. Byes!

Sunday, September 21, 2008

PiSSed

Pissed off. Some ppl are just dam irresponsible. Always promise this, promise that, but in the end, only shit stuff from him.

Initially still kinda pity him. Still helping him to find excuses to cover for his mistakes, "maybe he don't have time to do", "maybe he's stressed up with other stuffs" but now can't really stand it liao.

Anyway we already decided to find our own solution instead of "waiting" for him.

I've learnt my lesson. Never work with irresponsible ppl cos they will only DRIVE YOU MAD!

Some ppl can only be friends, just friends. Once you crossed that line, you will only be looking for more troubles for yourself. Don't be such a dumbarse!

Saturday, September 20, 2008

If you DRINK, pls don't DRIVE

Went down to Ikea with mummy and sis to take a look at their furnitures just now. Their wardrobe designs are nice but i wont consider buying any furnitures from there. Cos I suck at self fixing. So i doubt the things that I fix will last long. I dont trust hubbie skill also. So i can only take their design as reference.

Dinner-ed at a Chinese restuarant "Pu Tian", which is located at Kitchener Road. Brought mummy there cos I think the food there is nice and also to celebrate her birthday.

After dinner, was Dbl O. Haha. This is the first time mummy been to such places. There's an F1 event over at Dbl O from 8-10pm, and there's free flow of drinks and my sis suggested to go, so we went down.

Mummy told us that she would like to join us next time if we club again. Whee o whee! Lol

And tonight was the first time that i ordered orange juice instead of alcoholic drink, reason is simple, cos I'm driving. Sigh.

Driving sucks!

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Dear Diary

That night, hubbie told me maybe he should create a blog for himself too. But he said, he cant understand... to him, blog is sort of a personal diary, but why are we treating it like a magazine? A magazine for other to read, laugh or learn.

If he was to create a blog, he will post the things he did daily so that in future, if he forgotten what he did, he can refer back.

I do agree with wad he said, but i think it would prolly be pretty boring...

Imagine...

My dear diary,

yesterday was an enjoying day for me!

Woke up in the morning, had lunch at home. Mother in law and sis in law came over.

After lunch, we went down to West Mall to buy the steamboat ingredients for our dinner and also to celebrate weijie's birthday.

Then after buying things, we went back house to put those stuffs and head down to shop. Supposed to meet up with hubbie friend to discuss about things, but he never turn up. Overslpt.

So we went back home to prepare for dinner, Zm followed us back home too.

While waiting for others, we did abit of dota-ing, surfing net, chatting..

Finally the gang reached, so we had our dinner.

After dinner, was partyworld!! Went down to the partyworld located at Taman Jurong. Initially, birthday boy suggested to go down to Thai Pub Disco but some said they prefer ktv than clubbing.

Ktv-ed from 9pm to 1am. Sang alot of my favourite songs. Took a few photos too. Had fun and enjoyed ourselves.

Went straight back home after ktv, most of them were tired. And then bla bla bla... then end of the day.

Yawns! It's bored! Lols, i myself felt bored when posting about it, i can't imagine what my friends feel if they are reading such entry. Hee.

So, the "dear diary" style issn't that suitable for me ba. Haha.

I prefer my way, a blog which i can vent out my frustrations towards things or people, share knowledge even though I'm not really that knowledgeable, share happy stuffs, informing ppl about things etc.

I do blog about daily stuffs too, but not in a detailed way.

Btw, i rec'd my letter of offer from Psb Academy le. Asking me to bring along the application forms and cheque down to their premise by 29th Sept. And my course will start 10th Nov.

I'm taking Certificate in Business Administration (Full time), Monday to Friday, 9am to 12pm. Why am I taking certificate again? Reason is simple, cos I've lost my certificates and result slips and I have not touch books for long long time, so they suggested me to take the certificate first. Anyway it will be just a 3 months course. After that I can continue with my dip in HRM.

Ok, time for some photos of ytd ktv!

Starting first, the star of yesterday! The birthday boy!
He's working in Subaru. Any guys interested in buying car, can ask me for his contact.

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Me and hubbie with a kuku chicken at the top right hand corner. Lols, can u see him?

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He's Andy Lau's "brother". Lols.

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Fuxing... all night busying playing with my iphone.

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Mr Yeo Chee Meng, the joker of the day. Haha
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Mr Robin, the manager...Another Subaru guy.

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Lovely couple... Guorong and Agnes.

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And more of hubbie and me... Laugh at his kuku face pls. He begged me not to post, but I insisted. Who ask him always act cute and funny while taking photos.


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The funniest of all...

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Muahahaha!

And i realised something. G900 camera sucks especially at night. It just abit better than other normal phone. So conclusion.. if u wana take nice photo, go for a digi cam pls. Even those 2 megapixels can take nicer pic than the G900 5 megapixel camera.

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

My new toy



My New phone - 16gb white iPhone! (This pic not mine, its from other website one. Lazy to take photo of my phone.)

Actually I heard alot of negative comments about iphone. And i didn't even thought I would buy iphone.

Cus, I love my G900. It got wonderful camera, and its user friendly. But dam fuking suay lor, i dropped my handphone inside the toilet bowl in one of the toilets at Bugis. And i blew dry it using the dryer inside the toilet. Its still usable but it got a weird smell. And the lcd screen was damaged.

So i traded in my phone to a shop at a lugi price. Zzz.

Since my contract for my m1 line expiring, so I thought of switching it to Singtel instead cus of its auto roaming. Then when I was browsing the Singtelshop webbie, i fell in love with the white iphone lor. Very pretty lor.

I considered for awhile, decided to ignore all those negative comments which I've heard, and went down to West Mall to get that phone. Fuck care all the bugs that the phone might have, i do not mind as long the phone is pretty. Lols.

But however, after getting it, i did not regret at all. Not only the outlook is nice, the applications inside the phone is cool too. I can read books, play lots of fun games with beautiful graphics, surfing website using wifi and alot alot. Application books can be purchased from itune store at a very low price. And 1st book that I've installed - Journey to the centre of the earth. I watched the movie but did not read the book before.

And GT, you know? You no need to jailbreak the phone just to use MP3 for your ringtones. You can just use itunes to do it. Only for the ringtones not sms tones.

There's few things bad about this phone, cant forward sms, can't sms to more than one person at a time, cant rec'd files or send files using bluetooth, the bluetooth is just for you to connect devices like earpiece etc.

But overall, I still love this phone. Its a cool and great phone to have!

Should I be happy or not?

Appetite really poor these few days. Yesterday i ate one polar cake chicken pie in the afternoon only, and nothing else.

These few days, lost 2 kgs. But i'm not sure if i should be happy anot? Happy for losing weight? Or shld be worried about my abnormal stomach?

I dun feel hungry at all. And at night, I always have trouble getting into slp.

My olden days are back. I feel weak easily. Yesterday went down to Singtel to exchange the charger for my phone, queued less than 15 mins, i'm cold sweating already. And i feel dam uncomfortable.

Sigh.

Monday, September 15, 2008

Whee

Blogging with my new phone. It's fun!!
OMGod! Bing is in camp now liao. And i forgot to sms him to wish him the best last night. I wasn't feeling well. So i couldn't remember things well.

Yesterday steamboat was nice. I supposed to be enjoying it but i don't have the mood. Wasn't feeling well since morning. After steamboat, i puked all the food out, causing discomfort to my stomach, gastric pain.

Nevermind. One more steamboat on this coming Wednesday, to celebrate weijie's birthday. Hope my health will ok by then.

Last night, didnt really slept well, only managed to slp after hours of rolling in my bed.

I had never been slping well since friday. Freaking tired but just can't get to slp. Sigh.

My parents house had been sold! Yay yay! After two days of viewing last weekend, finally sold. Haha. Now, we can concentrate fully on our new house liao.

Busy weeks ahead. Though house sold, but still there's alot of things to be done. I guess I won't be available for the few coming weekends. So guys, any program just count me out, except mahjong and of cos, I definitely won't miss the gathering to see botak bing. . hee.

Saturday, September 13, 2008

Happy M.A.F!

When the clock strike 12, its gonna be Mid Autumn Festival!

So I'm wishing all you in advance, Happy M.A.F!

Feeling sad cos I did not join my lil cousins in their lanterns and candles session.

Kayden was tired, so we went off early.

And no steamboat also. My cousin's in law cooked instead. All the things I'm looking forward did not happen.

But nvm, there's steamboat tmr, with my big family including my parents, parents in law, sis, sis-in-law.

I felt useless. I never express myself in the correct way. I always fail to express what I really felt. Talked so much, in the end I'm still feeling fucking emo.

And DRIVING SUCKS! I regretted taking that fking license. Sigh.

I'm just an emotional fucker.

Byes. Slp now so I won't think so much. And will cheer myself up cos tmr is steamboat!

My Coco is on heat!!

Congrats to my darling Coco, the Silky Terrier. Haha. She just had her first heat yesterday. What is on heat? Means menses la. Don't ask me wad is menses ok? If you do not, you can jolly well go bang on the wall and bleed.

As some of u might heard me, I might be breeding her. Still considering about it. And anyway I'm not planning to breed her that soon. Maybe wait till after she have her second heat. And I would have to bring her down to the vet for check up too. To check if her health, her size is suitable for breeding. I do not want to put her life in danger.

I have friends telling me "If you ever breed your dog, give one pup to me k?". If you guys are keen in keeping dogs, its a must for you to read up more first before deciding. Its a huge sum of money, time and responsibility to keep a dog.

You will be responsibile for the dog's health, needs etc. Dry dog food is a must to my dogs. Some ppl give their dogs human food or even left over from their meals. There are some foodstuffs which human relish can actually cause illness or even death to your dogs.

Lists of the fews which I find:

Corns
Dogs can't digest corn

Chocolates
Loves to Human but toxic to dogs. Can be fatal even in small quantities.
Chocolate contains theobromine, a compound that is a cardiac stimulant and a diuretic.
When affected by an overdose of chocolate, a dog can become excited and hyperactive. Due to the diuretic effect, it may pass large volumes of urine and it will be unusually thirsty. Vomiting and diarrhoea are also common. The effect of theobromine on the heart is the most dangerous effect. Theobromine will either increase the dog’s heart rate or may cause the heart to beat irregularly. Death is quite possible, especially with exercise.

Onions and garlic
Surprisingly, onions and garlic is so common to human. We eat it almost in our everyday meal. But they are another kind of dangerous food ingredients that can cause sickness to dogs.
Onions and garlic contain the toxic ingredient thiosulphate. Onions are more of a danger.

Macadamia nuts
The toxic compound is unknown but the affect of macadamia nuts is to cause locomotory difficulties. Dogs develop a tremor of the skeletal muscles, and weakness or paralysis of the hindquarters. Affected dogs are often unable to rise and are distressed, usually panting. Some affected dogs have swollen limbs and show pain when the limbs are manipulated.

Other potential dangers
Pear pips, the kernels of plums, peaches and apricots, apple core pips (contain cyanogenic glycosides resulting in cyanide posioning).
Potato peelings and green looking potatoes
Rhubarb leaves
Mouldy/spoiled foods
AlcoholYeast dough
Coffee grounds, beans & tea (caffeine)
Hops (used in home brewing)
Tomato leaves & stems (green parts)

You can visit dogsforum.sg for more information on dog food and nutrition.

Pets owners should not assume that human food is always safe for pets. Giving them left over human foods, pizzas, you might think it's a scrumptious meal for them. Yea, indeed. You will see them happily eating those stuffs. But the fact is, you are slowly killing them.

I've read that actually other than those dry dog knibbles, you can also give them home cooked food. But they must be specially cooked according to those dog home cooked food recipes.

Actually i occassionally do give my dogs cakes, fruits, cookies. =x but in moderation. As they are high in sugar content, and might not be healthy for them. At times I just can't stand the way they looked at us while we are eating. If you watched Shrek, you will know how i feel. The cat in boots, you remember?

Another important concern other than food is health. Yearly vaccination must be given to dogs. For a pup, first vaccination is to be given to it when it is about two months i think, then the second one will be one month after the first, then the third one, one month after the second. In total, 3 monthly vaccination for a pup then follow by the yearly one.

Dogs do fall sick too. Just like human. They will get sickness like diarrhoea, gastric, heart diseases etc. And their medication cost a bomb. I still remembered i spent quite alot for Sydnie medication when she was knocked down by a car few years back. The hospital charges and the medication add up to a total near 700 i remembered.

Mine is just minor case compared to my friend's dog. Her dog was knocked down by a van and had to amputate one of his hind legs. She spent thousands on the surgery, hospitalisation and the medication. And the saddest thing, was that her dog passed away less than half year after his operation, not because of that accident, but died due to some kind of heart diseases.

You will also have to spend time with your pup, toilet training it, playing with it, disciplining it, looking after it ensuring she won't go around biting wires and furnitures which my Coco did when she just came to my place. Else you will have to spend another amount on furnitures and electrical appliances again.

Responsibility... treat your dog like your child to you. Dote her, love her. Give the best you can give her. Do not kick her aside when she grew old and ugly. Do not abandon her if she is sick.

I watched "10 promises to my dog" and i cried. If you guys really interested to have a dog, pls do go and watch this movie. It stated true facts about a dog, about a dog's feelings.

They have no other except us. They rely on us, have trust in us. Do not betray their trust. Do not break their heart. They have feels just like we humans do. They do cry and feel upset.

If you want to have a dog, be sure to be the best mummy or daddy to them and love them. =)

(PS, Two posts in a day, ya I'm feeling dam bored. Woke up too early and nothing much better to do. Lols)

It's Mid Autumn Festival!

While waiting for my mac breakfast to arrive, i decided to blog.

Woke up dam freaking early today, ard 6 i started rolling in my bed. Stomach grumbling so loud, I'm dam hungry.

Only had a decent meal yesterday which was my lunch. Half packet of "guo tiao" till now. In the afternoon i also had a yummy strawberry kisses ice, i thought it was yummy by its appearance but it turned out to be too sweet.

My lil Kayden was so cute. Just now, watched him slowly woke up. The way he stretched his body, the yawns, the sounds, his small half awaken eyes and his first morning smile to me, omg I feel like hugging him tightly and squeezing him in my arms. So cute lor.

Later bringing him back to my mum house. There's viewing from 2 pm till 4 pm. Then will head down to my cousin house for steamboat gathering, reunion dinner. Its Mid Autumn Festival tmr! My favourite festival when I was young.

I still remember the days when I played candles with my neighbours children when we were young. We burned the paper lantern and set up a small camp fire using the candles and the lanterns. Definately miss those days.

And tonight the kids gonna have lantern session too. Muahaha. And lil kayden will be joining them. He have his this little lantern, shape of Barney and with music one. His aunt bought it for him. Loves loves.

Lanterns, gathering, steamboats, OMG. Can't wait for tonight. Haha.

Friday, September 12, 2008

Sigh... Another...

Why are relationship so fragile? Haiz.

Rec'd another phone call from a dear friend of mine. She told me that she's decided to file for a divorce with her hubby. She can't take this kind of relationship anymore. She said that her husband no longer love her.

She said...

Actually she mentioned divorcing to her hubby quite a couple of times liao, but her hubby dowan. He promised her that he will change and bla bla bla. But in the end, none of his promise was fulfilled. The reason why her hubby is hanging on to this marriage is just because of his son. He love his son and he knew that my friend will definately fight for his custody. He can't bear to lose him so he objected to the divorce.

Seriously when she asked for my opinion, i'm lost of words. Too many bad experiences till I do not dare to give any advices on that kind of problem anymore. I can lend my ears, but I can't comment anything. I can only ask her not to think too much, not to be too upset etc but I can't tell her whether to divorce or not. I do not want to be or to be called the "accomplice" when things turn ugly at the end.

She told me, she just want to put all her concentration on her son now, she love her son. And she will be happy even she lead a simple life just with her son. She's indeed changed alot, she used to cut herself when she broke down due to marriage problem. But now... she's a noble mummy who only think about her son's future and happiness. *Claps*

"在这个世界上,最伟大的是母爱"

Hope that she will be happy, always.

Went down to Subaru Cartimes to look for Weijie. His uniform... lols abit weird weird de. Should say he look weird wearing that uniform. Casual talks, jokes and laugh. It's been long since we last gathered. I assume next one will be on his birthday ba.

Well, dono wad's their planning yet. But what I know is that I'm gonna be busy for the coming weekends. House viewings for my parents unit will be arranged, prolly on every weekend till the unit is sold. And our first appointment with HDB will be on 30th Oct, for the unit we bought. And after that.. will be meetings with our renovation contractor. God, think will gonna be busy till January liao. Sigh.

Am dam tired liao. Slpt for a few hours only. And I am feeling fking high today. Even when driving, i can feel like I'm floating on air. lols. I need a rest.

Off to rest. Bye.

Why are some ppl so smart but some ppl born so dumb?

Why are some ppl so smart? After they read my entry, they straight away know who I am talking about? Stupid SMART bing! Why you so clever? Why you always guess correctly who I am talking about?

But why some ppl are borned so dumb? No matter how clearly I wrote, they will never know that I'm talking about them. Maybe perhaps next time I will just include their full name including surname big, bold and underline just like someone else did. Ah bing again, should know whom I'm talking about right? Maybe yiting will know too. Hahas.

Yesterday went down Lau Pa Sat and met up with the steamboat gang for dinner. This time no more steamboat liao, haha. Kira joined us too. But too bad sher nvr go.

After that was Mahjong at my house. Perhaps will be the last mahjong for these few months, cos one of our Kaki, Mr Bing is enlisting to NS this coming Monday. God, sure gonna miss him, cos no more mahjong liao. Lols.

Good luck Bing! And careful hor, dun let the mice eat up your toothpaste! See you on your next book out!

Thursday, September 11, 2008

If you fall under the below...

THEN FUCK OFF FROM ME!!

1) Hypocrite ; Fake people

I'm not referring to those who having fake nose, fake chins, fake breast, etc. Those will only freak you out in appearance when they have their plastic surgery operation failed. Lols.
I'm referring to those who act kind and nice to you but behind your back, stab you with all kinds of nasty things.

2) Take advantage of ppl - Type 1

Will only call when they need help financially or ask you out when they have no money and expect you to pay for their everything. Frankly speaking, I hate this kind of ppl the most! These ppl are more scary than the 1st type.

If you have no money, just dun go out la. Just stay at home la. No money still keep thinking of fun, play, shop.

I will help abit if you just tell me you have no money. Maybe I can still pay for your meals or buy you drinks (just normal 1 or 2 dollars drink la). But not helping you pay for your entrance to clubbing or ktv or even pay for your dress you like. NO WAY! I am not "carrot" ok, and i hate to be treated like a "carrot".

3) Take advantage of ppl - Type 2

Not financially this time.

Making use of your name as a protection shield.

I have girlfriend which was very close to me. She lied to me and she made use of my name as a shield to her husband just to go out with other guys. I was such a dumbass for trusting her once again and again when she told her she's sorry for everything. And the worst thing she done to me was she pushed me to her husband when her husband told her he had feelings for me. She's not just an irresponsible mother to her daughter and a horrible friend.

4) Irresponsible towards parents, children and family.

I know this is very personal. I shouldn't be interferring in such family matters. But I just can't stand those who doesn't respect their family. Respect your parents as they suffer alot of hardships, spend alot of efforts in bringing you up.

I did yelled at my mum during my teenage years. I did not listen to her and shouted back at her for being naggy. Thinking back those times, I felt so guilty for treating her like this. Now, I will try to give her the best I could. Treat her with respect and love. She's not only my mother, she's my best friend too. She listen to my problems, give me advices and help me to overcome alot of problems. I felt so great for having such a wonderful mum.

Responsible to your children, you gave birth to them, you brought them to this world and it is your job / duty to raise them up. Not to push blame on them, or abandon them cos you feel that they are irritating, they are such a nuisance. I really can't understand, children are the cutest you can find on earth, how can you bear to treat them like this? How can you bear to throw them away or even abandon them? Abusing children are the most inhuman thing one can do. If you did those to your children, you aren't a human at all. And i would never want such a person to be my friend, not even those "hi" and "bye" kinds.

At times, when i dislike someone, i won't go straight to her and tell her "I dislike you, don't come and disturb me again". Cos i won't feel like talking to her anymore. But if she call me up, I will pick up and reply to wadever thing she ask, if she sms me, i will reply, if she msn me, i will reply but sometimes i will act afk. I will only talk or reply things when she ask, sort of entertaining her ba but i won't be asking her to go out again or joining her for her outings. The feelings sucks if I go out with someone whom I dislike.

I heard ppl complained about their friends making use of them. For eg, will only call you when they are bored or need someone to accompany them to go out or need someone to talk to when they are feeling down.

Frankly speaking, i feel that there's nothing wrong with it. I make use of my friends too. When I'm feeling down, i make use of their ears for me to nag all my unhappiness into it. I need their accompany when I am feeling bored. I make use of them for ktvs, mahjong sessions, clubbings..etc.. My friends make use of me too and i feel normal with it. I used to be very sensitive with this making use thing but now i'm perfectly ok with it.

When friends need your ears, mean they trust you. When your friends need you for accompanies means they enjoy being with you. Your friends love you that why they are making use of you. If you do not like you, you think they will bother to call you up and ask you out meh? They will just fuck care you lor.

So dont come and nag to me that you feel that I'm just making use of you. I make use of you cos I trust you, i enjoy being with you and I love you. =)

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Life is not so easy =(

At times I feel so sick living in such a realistic world.

It's so hard to survive.

Why do ppl have to work in order to earn money?

And why do ppl have to study so hard in order to earn more money and yet at the same time, spend so much money and time to get those fking degree?

And those without high qualification can only work and earn pathetic pay and lead a pathetic life?

Life's so unfair. Only smart ppl can survive in this world.

And me... going back to study life real soon, in order to get higher qualification and earn higher pay. And I am not so looking forward to it. -.-

It's been years since I left school. My last cert was taken dono hw many decades ago. lols. I'm not sure if my brain was as "absorbent" as before anot.

Why can't we be given a free house to stay in, a free car to drive, free food, free electricity, free water supply and free education?

I know I've posted a similar post before. Sorry, but i just can't stop nagging about life. So bear with it.

Life with a family, a kid is definately different from being single. So much burdens. So much worries. I'm not really that worry about current life but much more worry about our future, about kayden's future.

Its really not easy to be a mother, to be a good mother.

Milk, diapers etc are fking expensive. A milk which cost 30 plus bucks and can only last my kayden for less than a month. A pack of diapers 20 plus bucks can only last my Kayden for a few weeks. And also his clothings, his toys.

In order to survive all these, in order to give Kayden's a comfortable life, I have to buck up. Buck up with studies, buck up in coping with the stresses in both studies and work in future.

Shifting house soon. Renovations, buying furnitures etc.. cost a bomb. Sigh, i suddenly felt so poor =( Poor in money, poor in education, poor in everything.

Any kind souls out there to sponsor all my everything? Lols.

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

Friends are L.O.V.E.S

Last fri went down to the opening ceremony of Chris' pet shop. Here's some photos of the event! Lion dance!!!






Friends are Loves. Had a great weekend with some of my buddies.

Friday evening was partyworld with Ting, Bing and Joyce. Ktv is love. Ktv-ed from 10pm to 2am. Supposed to pick hubbie back from his soccer at 2 plus am but i was late. So he lobang another friend's car back to gombak. Sorry...

Met up with Dellas, Lai, Ken and Kenny for dinner on Saturday. Purpose to celebrate Lai's birthday. Actually their program started at 12pm for lunch then continue by partyworld, but I kinda of tired and at the same time, throat not feeling so well. So i met them for dinner only.

Dinner-ed at a Chinese Restaurant "Pu Tian", located at Kitchener Road. Food there was nice! Had great fun with them. Ken never fail to make us laugh with his act cute look and behaviour =x and that Kenny was busy taking videos of us.




Going to bring my mum there for her birthday dinner. She's sure gonna like the food there.

I used to scold Hubbie "weak" or "pig" when he complained that driving was tired. And now I myself felt the same. Driving definately is tired. -.-

Later still have to drive hubbie down to town area to settle his stuff.

And I'm getting lazier. =/ Its been long since I swam. My hairstylist told me its bad for the hair if I swim too frequently, so I stopped. Wanted to go down gym to exercise but till now, haven't started yet. I must be disciplined! Tomorrow die die must go down!




Thought there gonna be mahjong session at Joyce's house this coming friday. But i think it will be cancelled. STUPID BING! Busy man! Humphz!

You have to leave one day for us before you enlisted. Roar!

Friday, September 5, 2008

My Lifetime Commitment to You

I promise to love you
Honour You
Comfort you and
Keep you in sickness
And in Health
And be faithful to you
so long as we both shall live.

The vows written on the folder that holds our Certificate of Marriage.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment but nowadays its seems that alot of ppl never treat it as a serious matter.

Now divorcing is such a common and popular thingy nowadays. I have friend who doing their divorce currently is que-ing up for a date to attend the Court. She've been waiting for at least 2 months plus and still currently waiting. Lawyer told her, currently the schedule for the Court is fully booked. Omg!

"I promise to....keep you in sickness and in health..."

Can one really do it? If your wife having some kind of serious depression or mental illness, and might bring harm to you or your family, can you risk your and family's life to keep her by your side?

Are you able to accompany her down to the IMH for regular checkup and ignore how the other ppl look at you?

Are you able to ignore those negative advises which your friends give you, telling you to leave your wife?

"I promise to......and be faithful to you so long as we both shall live."

When i see this, I was LOL-ing. I am wondering how guys make this vow infront of God, when they can't do it at all? They are just lying infront of God.

I believe in fairy tales story, ever-lasting love, but is there really such thing in the current world we are living? I doubted so. Maybe there is, and it doesn't happen around you.

I have friends who were married but having flings or boyfriends/girlfriends outside. Some told me, he love his wife and also he love his girlfriend, so he can't give up either one. How can one heart holds two ppl at the same time? How can one love two or more people at the same time?

I have friends who have been fooling around outside and the reason he gave was "I don't love my wife anymore, I'm just want to make her leave me by her own." These people are simply selfish! They can go down hell since they don't even care how the one they used to love feel at all.

What is marriage now? Is it just a game for two? For me, its my lifetime commitment to you.

Darling, can you prove to me that there's ever-lasting love story existing in this world?

The "Strawberry Pet Shop"

Recently not much stuff to blog.

Lost of interest in blogging too. Lols. I can't think of anything much to blog anymore.

Just supper-ed with zm and zx at Geylang, the dim sum there is super duper nice. Reminds me lots of memories back with the pubors. Lols.

I think i went supper with them there once. After supper, we crossed the road straight to the opposite durian store and had alot of yummy durians there. And I remembered wad Kira told us that time. It was simply LOL lor. He's bad =x

Well well, I guess not much chance to have another pubor gathering, since most of them are busy with their works, studies etc. I really miss them.

Might be meeting some of the pubors tmr for k-session. Whoo. Its been long since I touched those mikes.

Tmr bringing two of my doggies down to hubbie's friend petshop. He just opened one petshop in Gek Po Shopping centre and tmr is their official opening day. Heard there will be lion dance too. Woot. Wow, wow! Hope his groomers are good.

I had bad experiences with some groomers. They are rough in handling dogs. And there were always cuts on my dog when i brought them back from grooming. I wonder how they got their grooming certs in the first place.

For those who live in the west, pls do drop by his shop to take a look there. Heard that his grooming area is huge. And I love his shop name "Strawberry Pet shop"!

Ok, time for slp. But before slp, MOB WARS first! I wanna earn lots and lots of money from bounty kills!!!

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

My Perfect Family!

Life's great with a perfect family.

My dearest, caring & cute hubby, my chubby cute lil son, my three naughty doggies, my lovely and understanding parents and not forgetting my pretty sister. And of cos, my understanding and nice parents-in-law and helpful pretty sis-in law. They made my life sooo perfect!

But... I felt so guilty. For not being able to help out with hubbie's problems and yet still add on problems to him, throwing temper at him. Sigh. I'm sorry my love.

I know this has appearred in my blog for several times but yet I'm going to say it again. I will try to change for the better. Erm, nope. I will try to change for the best.

Thanks for taking in all my nonsenses, my temper, my stubborness. I know I'm not a good wife, I will try my best to change.

My lil boy is so cute now, he's so expressive! He do alot of funny faces and talk alot also. He's real sweet darling. He loves to smile, loves music and he loves to watch tv. Such a curious one. Always turn his head around to see wad's happening, always look at us when we talk as if he understands wad we are talking.

He just took his 2nd jab yesterday. He's such a BRAVE lil boy. He never cry at all. His face changed abit when he was being jabbed but soon after the jab, he continue to explore around, talking and smiling to people. Lols.

Will be taking his 3rd jab on his 4 months. I can't wait for him to grow bigger and crawl around the house and play with us.

Will post more of his pics soon.