My Lifetime Commitment to You

I promise to love you

Honour You

Comfort you and

Keep you in sickness

And in Health

And be faithful to you

so long as we both shall live.

The vows written on the folder that holds our Certificate of Marriage.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment but nowadays its seems that alot of ppl never treat it as a serious matter.

Now divorcing is such a common and popular thingy nowadays. I have friend who doing their divorce currently is que-ing up for a date to attend the Court. She've been waiting for at least 2 months plus and still currently waiting. Lawyer told her, currently the schedule for the Court is fully booked. Omg!

"I promise to....keep you in sickness and in health..."

Can one really do it? If your wife having some kind of serious depression or mental illness, and might bring harm to you or your family, can you risk your and family's life to keep her by your side?

Are you able to accompany her down to the IMH for regular checkup and ignore how the other ppl look at you?

Are you able to ignore those negative advises which your friends give you, telling you to leave your wife?

"I promise to......and be faithful to you so long as we both shall live."

When i see this, I was LOL-ing. I am wondering how guys make this vow infront of God, when they can't do it at all? They are just lying infront of God.

I believe in fairy tales story, ever-lasting love, but is there really such thing in the current world we are living? I doubted so. Maybe there is, and it doesn't happen around you.

I have friends who were married but having flings or boyfriends/girlfriends outside. Some told me, he love his wife and also he love his girlfriend, so he can't give up either one. How can one heart holds two ppl at the same time? How can one love two or more people at the same time?

I have friends who have been fooling around outside and the reason he gave was "I don't love my wife anymore, I'm just want to make her leave me by her own." These people are simply selfish! They can go down hell since they don't even care how the one they used to love feel at all.

What is marriage now? Is it just a game for two? For me, its my lifetime commitment to you.

Darling, can you prove to me that there's ever-lasting love story existing in this world?