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Monday, August 4, 2008

Carlsberg vs Tsing Dao

Opps forget something...

You guys know mah?

Carlsberg can cure flu and cough while Tsing Dao will only make ppl sick??

You know why? The Tsing Dao i drank in Shenzhen made me so sick with serious flu and cough. And after drinking carlsberg I'm actually feeling much better.

Love Carlsberg and hate Tsing Dao!!!

The Kpo Potato Salad

Did anyone of you tried the potato salad i made? I'm not praising myself but it's yummy lor. Hahas.

Potato salad always reminds me of granny...

When my granny still around, she love the potato salad i made. Everytime she would sure ask me to leave her a big tub for her to bring home and eat slowly. And she will always ask me "Qi ah~! You got wash your hands before doing the salad anot?!" Haha. My granny was cute.

Its been 2 yrs since she left us. And i miss her deeply. I will never forget how she "tortured" my dog, the way she laugh, the "abit of shocked, bits of angry, bits of surprise, bits of funny" expression on her face when she saw the Little Mermaid cake I bought for her... I will never forget those happy moments we spent, in Sentosa, at my house, at her house. I won't forget those painful moments in the hospital too. She will always be missed.

Hubbie told me this ytd, "Dear, if you make potato salad for me to eat, I will love you more." Duh! Becos of alittle more love from him, I have to make the potato salad for him tmr.

Its issn't easy work k? You will need to peel the potatoes, you will need to boil them till they are soft and cut them into cubes. Then you will need to cook the eggs and peel the shells. You will need to smash the eggs and bla bla bla! Lots of hard work ok??! And I always scald my hands while doing the potatoes. Sobs.

Anyway he won't get to eat the salad tmr, cos I cun find any bacon bits in the few supermarkets i went. So I have to make a trip down to the Shop N Save in West Mall or Bt Timah Cold Storage to find it.

Anyone who want to try the salad, pls drop by my house at Gombak on Wednesday. Hee.

Happened to saw something while i was browsing thru the blogs stored under my favourite tab. I saw something and i had been thinking about it since just now. And there is something which i really do not understand... If you do not want ppl to discuss about the things you wrote, in the first place why do you blog them? Then if you already blogged them, then why can't ppl read and discuss about it? It hard to know wad such kind of person is thinking.

Hm.. i feel its simply just another immature behaviour. Just like.. when I'm in gd terms with you... oh of cos you can read my blog, read the present, read the pasts, and all are free for you to read, discuss or gossipped about, but if I dislike you... nono! you can't read my blog, you can't talk about it and if you mentioned or discuss about it, i will call you bitch. Its childish right?

And ya, that person definately made the right choice, she stopped blogging. Perhaps he is going to write all her personal stuffs in his "My dear diary" book with a lock outside. And only she himself can read it. (Sorry about the he and she, lols i did it on purpose de =P)

Don't ever think or suspect that the person I'm writting is referring to you. Its definately not you! Cos I don't think any of my friends will ever do that. They are all grown up gentlemans and ladies and will never behave in such an immature way.

I love to go around reading other ppl blogs, even those I do not know. Bo bian. I have too much free time. Then whenever I find blogs which are interesting I will bookmark them so I can dig more out of them in future.

If you are those kind of people who don't like others to read your blog, simple... just lock it and limit it to your invitations only. Or you can like wad i mentioned above, write them all in your "my dear diary" book.

=)

And my potato salad definately not for those "kids"... Lols. (Just joking)

P/s : Why Kpo potato salad? Cos I'm kpo and the salad is made by me. Hees

Money or love? 面包或者爱情?

This post's to reply to the comment in my previous entry...

Anonymous asked " wad if ur partner can give you anythin you want like money, would you still stick to your 原则 (principle)?"

Of cos I love money.. Who else don't love money. Everyone love money.

I love to shop, I love branded, I love lotsa things which money can buy. But money can never be used to exchange or replace love or happiness.

Even with millions or billions of dollars to spend...

I will not be happy without being with the one I love.

I will not be happy if the one I love do not love me as much as I love him.

I will not be happy if the one I love is not faithful towards our relationship.

So if my partner betray the trust, betray our relationship, I will never forgive him even he give me millions to spend.

面包或者爱情?

我当然选择爱情！

I can't survive without love... Love from my family, my pets, my friends and of cos from my hubbie...

Sunday, August 3, 2008

Can girls tolerate their boyfrends going to nightclubs?

Feeling surprised or shocked? For me to write post with such a topic?

Recent happenings to my friends made me think alot on this topic.

Back in Shenzhen, me and hubbie quarrelled over this issue also. Yes! When me and the other gals went shopping in 东门, hubbie and his friends went to nightclub. He told me he doesn't really want to go de, but have to entertain his friends, so he went. And he never inform me before going. He said that one of his friend already sms-ed his girlfrend so he tot that that girl will inform me. They went there for awhile. They drank, sang songs... There are other girls in the room too. You guys should know which kind of girls I'm referring to. Hubbie told me that initially one of the girls sat beside him but after awhile, he shifted to his friends side and the girl went to the other side accompanying his friend.

When he back to the hotel, we quarrelled non stop till next morning. He threw temper on me, raise his voice on me cos he was abit drank. I almost wanted to leave him cos he promised me before that he won't go such places. I never listen to his explanations. I can't calm myself down till the following morning. He made his promise to me again. I accepted it. He said he won't do things that make me unhappy anymore in future.

(Sorry hubbie, i promise you not to talk abt that incident anymore but i still wrote it out)

Back to the topic...

(Sincere apology if you feel offended after reading the below content. They are just my personal opinions. I'm not assuming that the things I wrote are true, all just written from my personal point of view.)

How many percentage of the girls in singapore can tolerate their boyfren or husband going to such places? Be it due to business or personal.

I personally can't accept it. I can't tolerate the one I love, holding other girls hand, or hugging other girls. No no no! I will never accept that. You can say I'm petty, selfish, inconsiderate or wadeva.

Whether its due to work or personal, i just can't accept it. Hubbie told me sometimes its hard to reject his friends or even bosses but I'm just the unreasonable type. Maybe I can accept once or twice, maybe only... but if its very frequent, then I'm sorry...

Got guys told me, "Come on la, nowadays its very normal for guys to visit those places. 缝场作戏 you know?" "We will never get serious with those type of girls one."

Ya ya, i know its very normal for guys to visit those places nowadays, and i know the 缝场作戏 thingy. But i have doubts in "we will never get serious with those type of girls one." I won't believe in this.

I have friends whose husbands left them for another girl. Another girl whom they knew from ktv. I also have guy friends whom fell in love with those girls and went down at least once every week just to see and hug them. I saw too many such cases, so I will never believe that you guys will never put in real feelings for them.

I think...

Some girls will even tell you their sad backgrounds which most of the stories are just bullshits. Maybe some of them are telling the truth, but most of them are just trying to make u pay more for their tips at the end of the day.Most of the girls working there are just working for the sake of money, fast money.

I have friends working in ktvs before too. They work there not becos they wana find boyfren there, they work there for the sake of money only. They need money.

Most of the girls working there are pretty with great figures, most of them are from China with beautiful fair skin. I will be surprise if you guys won't feel attracted. 我就不相信你们不会感觉到心痒痒。

We girls can be faithful to guys in everything, why can't they treat us back the same. I'm not just referring to relationship but to other things also. If my hubbie hold other girls hand or hug other girls, I will feel betrayed.

Guys ask yourself, if your wife did the same to you. Can you tolerate also? Before going to such place, before having such fun, pls spare a thought of your girlfren and wives. They can be 100% faithful to you, why can't you be the same to them.

Don't use friends, ego etc as an excuse. Even if its because of work, doesn't mean you have to ask for girls' accompany over at the nightclub. Friends won't use a knife to force you. Maybe they will say "buay steady la, everyone come out happy happy, you lidat.." or even laugh at you, "scared of wife" or wadeva, but this shouldn't become one of the reason to hurt the one that love you.

Some guys maybe lucky to have girlfren who can tolerate them going such places, but XP issn't that lucky to have such a wife.

But I'm lucky to have XP as my hubbie. Cos he's one of the few who doesn't like to go such places. He told me this and i trust him. So hubbie, pls do not betray the trust I have in you.