生日快乐

Happy birthday to me, happy birthday to me, happy birthday to myself, happy birthday to me..


Whee today's my birthday!! But damit, 老了, fking old liao, fking 26! Zzzz. 3x is few yrs down to road only.

Thanks hubbie for yr birthday cake! Although it's not my favourite strawberry shortcake but it's still edible and look acceptable also. Lols

But pls be more romantic leh and don't behave like a log. 木头 dun come infront of me and ask me if I want a cake la. Zzz no surprise at all! Next time, plssssssssss surprise me with a cake.

Thanks all my dear friends for yr smses, mgses and tags. Loves and kisses!!

Going out, byes!

Opps

I missed out qn 18 for the tag quiz.. thanks beii hunnie.. Lols

#18. What kind of person do you think you are?
Someone ke lian, cos always tio bullied by XP. Haiz..

Something for u to laugh

Lol! Don't laugh till teeth drop k?

Teeth drop liao ma? Haha!

Went down to Jean Yip for hair cut ytd, decided to dye and highlight my hair.

The above "hat" is for highlighting. I look dam cock wearing that hat. Lols!

Si Hubbie purposely use his cam to take alot of pics of me. Thinking of embarrassing me in front of others again?? But nevermind. It's cock but cute. Lol.

Long time nv post pic of my Xiao Ke Ai liao.. Bet u guys sure miss him alot.

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These tattoos are NICE! Gonna have one of the below on my body soon.

Love the below dragon alots!

Love shopping!!

Wahaha! Went shopping with mummy and weiting today. Dam tired, shopped from noon till evening.

Headed down to Taka to buy mum's facial products first, then to the LV shop, window shopping only, hubbie dun allow me to buy anymore LV, sad. Also went to the Baby's department and bought one hanging toy for Kayden to hang on his bed. Nice nice with 18 music and night light too.

Then headed for Gucci cos I thought they're having 30% sales, but chey, they having sales for limited item only, all aunties bags!! Saw one Gucci speedy bag, dam nice, $940, thought got discount but don't have. Sian lor!

Walked alot today, from Taka to Paragon then to Tangs, last stop was Far East. Bought a few sunglasses and bangles at Far East.

Shopped until shoes torned. Zzz. Wanted to buy new shoes, but unable to find any nice one at Far East.

Dinner-ed at Far East but I never eat. No appetite. Shop till too tired liao. Headed home straight after dinner.

Shopping can be quite tired but I simply love shopping!! Can't wait for the next one.

笨笨的老公

Lols. Thanks for the tags. I know you guys sure remember my birthday one.

Actually my previous post was referring to someone else. Hmm..someone else lor, that idiot lor. Haha. That pig who is now still sleeping in the bed next room lor.

He told me ytd that he did not forget my birthday and i told him I want big surprise on tt day, ask him go plan abt it.

Hubbie : 那天你要带我去那里玩?

Me: Fcuk u?!! 我不管，我要surprise你自己去想！

Hubbie: OK! Surprise issit? 我叫 kayden 唱生日歌给你听

Me: Ok! 你说的！那天kayden没有唱生日歌给我，你就死定了！一个礼拜我不会跟你讲话。

Hubbie: ... ok. 我去想要去那里庆祝。

Haha! U wana play with me, then I play along too lor.

Hubbie is always trying to act cute, but I tell you hor, your acting sucks. Haha.

Talking abt him, kinda bth with hubbie that day.

We were on the car going to Johor, and I played one of my CD, Korean song. Then...

He: Change CD la, so 难听, and as if you understand what they are singing about

Me: Ya I don't understand but their music so nice and romantic hor.

He: Then play Indian music lor, they also very nice.

Me: .......

Stupid boy! 你一点都不浪漫！

Time flies, being together with this act cute guy for almost one yr liao.

Our 1st anniversary is coming soon and most prolly we will be celebrating it together on my birthday. Save money. Lol

Stupid hubbie! Listen up! I wish to see pleasant surprises on that day, if don't have. You sure gonna suffer for the next one or FEW weeks, depending on my mood.

真无聊！

Its freaking cold this morning...Rain rain rain and keep on raining...

Nothing to do, hubbie still sleeping. Its alrdy 10:21am and he's still sleeping.

Woke him up just nw cos I'm bored and ask him if he want to continue to slp, he nodded his head. Stupid boy! Sleep la, sleep la! PIG! 猪！

Squash-ed with mummy yesterday. Haha! I'm stubborn! My wound just recovered and I'm playing squash.

Only played awhile nia la, 15 mins only. So weak, played awhile, right hand started to ache liao. So mummy asked me to stop and she continue alone.

4 more days to my birthday. Sad! Cos getting 1 yr older liao. But it seems tt not much ppl remember my birthday, they only remember Kayden's full month. Better la, no one know I'm going one yr older.

Hubbie bringing me for haircut this coming thursday or friday. Whees! I can finally have my haircut and rebond. My hair is totally out of shape now.

Dam still raining! Such a nice weather to slp. Maybe i shld go join hubbie now in his dream. Hehe.

Slimming down

Did I mentioned before I put on ard fking 30 kgs during my prenancy period?!!! I was simply bloated, round and fat during that time.

Finally the nightmare over, now its time for some slimming plans...

From dlvy till now, I lost around 20 kgs. So 10 kgs more to go. I am aiming to wear back my old clothes by my hong kong trip which will be end of july. One more month to go.

After hong kong trip, continue and cut off another 10 kgs of more fats. So totally I am aiming another 20 kgs off me. That's hard but I am sure I will be able to do it!!

Bought squash rackets, going to play with Mummy and daily cycling or swimming after my confinement, plus no rice no mee. Already started with the no rice no mee, and had lost 2 kgs for the past few days.

Budden I feel weak again. During that few months of pregnancy, I had never feel weak or giddy at all. Maybe I'm not used to it. A few days more I will be alright.

Tio tagged by Ting.. sigh! How am i gonna find 8 more ppl to do this while you already tagged most of my blog buddies...

Rules of the Taggy Quiz:
A] People who have been tagged must write their answers on their blogs and replace any question that they dislike with a new question formulated by themselves.
B] Tag 8 people to do this quiz and those who are tagged cannot refuse. These people must state who they were tagged by and cannot tag the person whom they were tagged by. Continue this game by sending it to other people.

Here are my answers:

#1. If your lover betrayed you, what will your reaction be?
Hmm.. of cos will be super upset and pissed off. Kick him away, divorce him, upset and cry for a period of time then move on life with my Kayden boy. But won't get involved in another marriage anymore.
In the past, maybe I will think of sucide etc.. but now with my Kayden, I can't be that irresponsible anymore.
But just like wad ting answered.. depending on wad kind of betrayal. I personally can't really accept my boy to flirt around not to mentioned to have flings or bed with another girl.

#2. If you can have a dream come true, what would it be?
To have lots lots lots of money and live happily ever after with my hubby, Kayden and my doggies. Obviously that's two dreams not a dream. Greedy me lols. K la, just live happily ever after with my family is well enough.

#3. If you could be at one place right now, where would it be?
Japan!! Especially winter season. I love snow, I love Japan and I love Japan's disneyland!!!

#4. Are you confused as to what lies ahead of you?
Ya.. confused! Lols. No plan for future yet... For now, just concentrate on studies, kid, family. Enough for me liao, no time to think about future. Anw, planning for future is kinda of stupid when u don't even know you will have a future anot. I mean will you live that long anot.

#5. What's your ideal lover like?
Like XP lor....He still have lots of room for improvement though...

#6. Which is more blessed, loving someone or being loved by someone?

被爱是辛富，爱人是痛苦... I thought so initially too, but i realised loving someone can be a blessed too. Just like how i feel when i'm in love with hubby... Being together with someone you love and someone who love you is the most blissful thing on earth.

#7. How long do you intend to wait for someone you really love?
Hmm. depends on how long I can live.

#8. If the person you secretly like is already attached, what would you do?
Try to give up if can lor, else wait in silent lor. Ruining others' happiness is evil!

#9. Is there anything that has made you unhappy these days?
Alot! As long as XP never give up on bullying me, my unhappy days goes on counting...

#10. What do you want most in life?
Everything! I'm greedy! Lols!

#11. Is being tagged fun?
Abit lame lor. But nevermind I got alot of time to waste. Haha!

12. How do you see yourself in ten years time?
Kayden and my dogs slave...

#13. Who is the current most important person to you?
Can only choose one? Cannot la. Cos all of my family members are important to me.

#14. What kind of person do you think the person who tagged you is?
Someone same as me! Siao cha bo! LOLS!

#15. Would you rather be single and rich or married but poor?
Married but poor. But i know XP won't let me suffer. He will work hard to give me and Kayden a good life.

#16. If you could have any animal for a pet, what would it be ?
I got three dogs already!! But if i could have any animal, i want a LION! ROAR!!

#17. What are one of those things which you would prefer not to do?
Change myself. Its hard and I think I'm not really that bad. So no need to change much la.

#19. What do you define as a bad day?
When i feel bad and sucky la!

#20. If you have to choose between love and friendship, what would it be?
Nil. Both are important to me.

Wa lau! Finally finished. 20 dam lame questions!
8 ppl to tag.. hmm..

1) Peifen
2) Alice
3) Beii
4) Lindy
5) Angel
6) Audrey hunnie
7) Bubbie
8) Sherilyn
(Bub and fishie, I know ting already tagged both of you, but I don't have anyone else on my list. So sorry arh! Lols)

I know you want me to change for my own good.. but if you love me, you have to love my everything, love my weakness and accept my bad habits. I know bad habits are meant to be kicked away but then its hard leh. U know wad going on with me when u know me, before you fell in love with me, so you shld accept it. I hate to force myself to change bcos of someone even my family, my mummy.

But then I know you're unhappy. I will try but no promise. I don't like you to nag about it to me. That kind of feel sucks. No nag no quarrel becos of it can?

Going back to study life...

Damit!

Few days back emailed the school which I want to enrol in, asking them if I am eligible for the admission for Diploma in Human Resource Management... Rec'd their reply today, suggesting me to take Certificate in Business Administration first before going into Diploma in HRM.

They said that my diploma is not really related to HRM therefore suggest me to start from Certificate first. Meaning I have to waste another 3 months (full time) or 11 mths (part time) on the Certificate before I can go for the Diploma (another 18 mths).

GOsh! I gotta spend another 2 plus to 3 yrs in studying again! I'm already mid twenties! By the time I done with my diploma I'm already 28 yrs old. If I want to go for degree, by then when I graduate I'm already in my 30s!! Waulau! So old liao!!

Their course intakes as follows:

Certification in Business Administration
16 Jul 08 - 10 Jun 09 (Part time), Wed / Sat 7-10pm, 2-5pm
16 Sep 08 - 18 Aug 09 (Part time), Tue/Fri 7-10pm
10 Nov 08 - 31 Jan 09 (Full time), Mon-Fri 9-12pm

I see the timing i jitao sian. I wanted to take full time but i see the time 9am-12pm, KaOz! Need to wake up so early. And its a everyday thing! Monday to Friday, 3 hrs of study daily. Faint!!

Then looking at the part time, hmm two days per week, sounds better budden I need almost one yr to complete that certificate course if I take part time. Fk it!

Headache!! I'm afraid that if i go full time, I will keep thinking of ponning school and I sure can't get my cert cos of my attendance. And since it a everyday thing, XP sure sian one lor. Everyday have to drive me to and back from school. Then if he dowan drive me, I have to take public transport. Wau lau!! Its in Delta leh!!!

Then part time...Zzz... SIAN!!! I dono la!! Sigh!!!

Why why why! Why is that dam fking certificate so important!!

Why is it so sufferring to get that fking shit piece of paper!!!

Why have to study so hard to get that fking dam piece of paper just for higher salary!!!

What a stupid and shitty world I'm living in!!!

Kayden's full month changed to Sunday!

As above... reason cos invited too many ppl liao. Total headcount now is more than 100.

Both the function room and my house can't possibily accomodate so many ppl. So I have to separate them into two days, Saturday 28th and Sunday 29th.

All my friends have been arranged to come on the 29th cos on the 28th most are Xp's relatives.

Sorry about the changes, I knew some of you already took off on that day to attend, felt so paiseh have to make u all change again.

Date and venue change as below

29th June 2008, Sunday 6pm
Blk 26 Bt Batok St 52, Guilin View #04-02 Singapore 659247
(venue change from function room to my house)

Hope to see u guys there.

Those who coming pls sms me or tag me.

Thanks...

Chicken with Martell taste not bad!! Sweet sweet de!

Drank liao, seh seh de. LOLS!

Upgrading myself

Been thinking of upgrading myself in terms of education since quite sometimes back.

Had always wanted to go for preschool teaching courses, cos I simply love to teach. Lols.

When young, had a dream of becoming a teacher or vet. But I only know how to dream..didnt really work hard on my studies. Haha.

Stopped school halfway during Sec 4, did not even sit for my "O" lvl.

Started working at the age of 16, as an office admin clerk. Then slowly I went into Logistics. Forced to take up Certificate and then Diploma in Logistics Management.

Kinda regretted, cos Logistics is dam boring can!! Lots of accounts and law to study. Zzz. But no choice, due to work, I had to force myself to finish it.

Worked in Logistics line for ard 7 yrs i think, getting bored with it liao. Its not just bits of bored ok, its dam fking bored.. I was like doing the same thing, liaising with the same grp of ppl for those 7 yrs. Freight industry in Singapore is dam small lor, even u worked in different company, at the end you will liaise with the same grp of ppl (shippings line or Air freight co-loaders). I can already memorize those Airfreight rates for Asian countries liao.

So i decided... even if I go back to work, i won't go back to Freight or Logistics anymore. I decided to upgrade myself.

I will be looking after Kayden myself for the 1st one or two yrs then I will hand over to my maid. Xp should be able to handle that handphone shop of his, so most prolly I will go back to my own working life.

Budden I can't decide on what kind of course I want to go for. First choice of mine, Preschool teaching. But after browsing thru the fees for a few schools, realised it fking expensive lor. From Certificate to Diploma, you will need about 10k plus. Then those childcare or kindergarten teachers pay, like very pathetic leh and such jobs are hard to find also. So come to think of it again, abit not worth.

So now I'm considering Human Resource. I love to count ppl salary. Lols. And I browse thru jobdb, most human resource pay aren't that bad. 2k plus to 3k plus.

Next intake for CHRM (Certificate in Human Resource Mananagement) for SHIRI will start in August and courses will commerce in Sept. Just enough time for me to rest, pass my Final Theory, spend with Kayden etc...

Will think about it again tomorrow, cos its time for me to be in bed. Gonna go drink the soup my in law cook for me, Martell with Chicken... sound nice but don't think will taste nice..Haha!

Hee

My hair got herbal and ginger smell.. Lols xD

Wtf happened to my voice??!!

Firstly, welcome my dearest Ting back! Hope you had enjoyed yr Hong Kong trip. My turn soon! End of July.. hee

Ytd msn-ed Bing asking him to organise July outing to Ktv, i'm craving for singing. But I realised I can't sing anymore. Zzz. My voice sucks now. I even have problem singing Lee Hong "Kiss Goodbye"!! Chorus part no breath!! Can't go high! Wtf!! Sian liao!

Bing, change change... change to clubbing instead of k-ing. Ktv next time. After my voice back normal then go ktv.

Still have yet booked for the buffet yet, cos still got ppl yet to confirm with me!! But this full month celebration gonna be a big one i supposed. Till now I think headcounts are around 50 plus. Just from my mum, and Xp's mum side nia. Haven't include my side and Xp's side. Btw my side not many ppl lar, cos not much contacts left in my hp nia, wanted to invite more ppl but dono how to invite them, lols.

Btw few names to add on..

1) Bing
2) Alice
3) Yuan
4) Dee
5) Kira

Later going to send more sms... cos i think i missed out a few peeps. Lols

Updates Updates updates..

Okies, no more Kayden's photos liao. Some updates about myself...

It's been 2nd week of my confinement and I'm glad tt I'm still alive. Lols. I've been exaggerating, confinement issn't that horrible la, just no bath, no washing of hair, no drinking of plain water, no favourite food, have to eat alot of ginger and drink alot of chicken wine soup. *Faintz

The "no bath", "no washing hair" already made me half dead. My head's itching till i bth liao. 2 more weeks to go. Jiayou!

Sent lots of sms invitations for Kayden's full month few days back but rec'd little replies only. Roar! I can't confirm the no. of ppl if ppl dowan reply leh. So far till now only the below ppl confirmed their attendance. Those whom havn't reply me, you guys must reply me by next monday ok?

1) Brandon x 2
2) Winny
3) Karen
4) Ting
5) Yx
6) Xuan
7) Lena
8) Andy
9) Sherilyn

Lemi know if I missed out any names. And also for those who never rec'd my sms, doesn't mean you are not invited ok. Just now I don't have your hp no. Changed new hp, so alot of phones numbers which was previously stored in phone were gone. All my friends are invited. So leave a tag if you are coming k?

Been playing Maple private server recently, lvling dam fast. Exp rate is like thousands times faster than maple. And their meso drop rates too.

Was playing Alcove few days back, but abit sian cos that server kept on having server check and it issn't on for 24 hrs. So went to search for another server to play.

Currently playing in AmbitionMS, quite a fun server with crazy exp and meso drop rates. Started playing ytd, already 15x liao and 2 billion meso of fund. Hee..

Lots of event going on too. Ytd GM summoned zakums, anegos, ah gong and clock at Skelegon Map. Fun!

Currently their hamachi full, so if u guys want to join might have to wait awhile. They are either creating new hamachi chnls or updating server to hamachi-less. Will let u guys know.

Gotta go do other stuffs liao. Take cares!

More of Kayden and only Kayden

Lol Ting!

Actually thinking back, those things I complained aren't really that bad. Hmm.. or perhaps should I say seeing Little Kayden made me forget those sufferrings and pains.

But if u asked me if I'm going to have another soon.. My answer..."NO WAY!" LOLs. During pregnancy, there's alot of restrictions leh, make me tahan until very 辛苦. So NO NO NO to another baby. One cute little one is enough for me liao. Not forgetting my three dogs. Lols.

I haven't had a chance to be a real mother yet, lol. Cos during these while, my mother-in-law have been looking after Kayden for me, feeding milk, changing diapers, bathing..etc..

What I did for the past few days, slp, eat, watch tv... 好命hor? For this one month only la... after confinement, I have to do everything myself liao.

Ok enough of my nags, more pics of Kayden to share...

More of Kayden

More pics of my darling prince....

He's good at posing for photos. Lols. So many different expression.

He's doing very fine and feeding well too. Tomorrow going back for another review at hospital.

Daddy spending most of his time lying beside little Kayden, did nothing but just smile and look at his little Kayden.

As for me, my wound recovering fast. Can walk around as usual le. Just that still feel abit of pain while getting up and down of bed. Doc said I lost quite alot of blood during the operation as there's alot of blood vessel around the womb area. But luckily I'm recovering fast.

Thanks Ting for her compliment on her blog, Lol. I'm not as good as u wrote.

During the 9 months of pregnancy i complained alot. I even complained about the 1 month of confinement. But seeing my little prince, all those sufferrings and pains were definately worth it. I'm proud to be Kayden's mummy. He's such a sweet and cute fela.

Thanks hubby for this wonderful baby. Without u, there won't be Kayden. Lols.

Thanks hubby for accompanying me for 3 nights at the hospital too. I knew you had hard time slping on that sofa bed, but you did not complain anything.

Thanks you for everything...

Love you and Kayden always....

Darling Kayden

My lovely Kayden...

Borned on 2nd June 2008, 1325 hrs at Mount Alvernia Hospital.

Doctor said he's a huge baby, weighing 3.905 kgs. Haha.

Full month celebration for Kayden will be on 28th June, Saturday. Venue will be at 26, Bt Batok St 52 Guilin View, Function Room (basement). Venue might change as I have not booked the function room yet =x And timing to be confirmed also.

All my friends are invited. Let me know if u are coming in advance cos I need to plan for the buffet.

Gotta go rest, will blog soon with more pics again.

Oh ya, thanks to those who visited me and Kayden in hospital.

Hell Sufferring Month..

Tomorrow admitting to hospital.. funny. If u ask me if I'm nervous now, no leh, i'm feeling very normal. Lols. Had been feeling nervous for the past few days, but now feeling ok lor, maybe used to it liao. lol

U know wad? I've already starting to plan for the things I want to do after my confinement, such a long list =/

Hair rebonding, hair coloring, lots of gym session and swimming for slimming, squash with mummy, ktv, club and drink till nobdy business, shopping, covering my ugly tatoos with new one, hong kong, bangkok, japan, eat alot alot of hello panda biscuits, still got lots more...haha

Omg! I cant wait for the confinement month to be over. Wahaha.

I know I'm not a good mummy, i only think of play shop eat. Never spare a tot for my little Kayden. Of cos i got plan for my little darling too, going to shop for more toys and clothes for u, bring u ard go walk walk, when u older, bring u to singapore zoo, birdpark, sentosa...

Fun aside, something really frustrated me is my dam fking birthday, i'm still on confinement on tt day. Zzz. Gonna spend it at home with body and hair full of herbs smell. Fking sian arh! Sigh.

Went shopping with mummy ytd, she bought a necklace for Kayden with Baby Mickey pendant. So sweet and nice. Can't photo it to show cos its in the safebox, key not with me. Thanks mummy.

I'm so proud of myself, i can shop for 7 hrs with mummy walking around in IMM with just ard 2 hrs of rest and dinning. With a dam fking big tummy which looks like going to explode anytime and a pair of swelled elephant legs. Shopping really rocks big time. Lol

Won't be blogging for the next few days or maybe weeks, have to wait for my wound to recover before I can sit infront of my com to type again. Will have tons of pics to upload next time i logged on, KAYDEN'S PHOTOS!

Oh ya! Btw my hp shop do sell maple prepaid card also, text or msn me if u need.

And I will invite u guys over for Kayden's full month celebration, I will see u guys there.